What happens when the holiday season that often comes with anticipation and excitement, also drags a bag of stress behind it? What do you do to manage stress and keep your balance at a time when so much is happening in your life and the world around you? This year make the goal to not only “get through the holidays” but also find ways to experience some of the joy the season promises.
For most people, the old ways of meeting a person, dating, and falling in love are no longer adding up to living happily ever after. More people are turning to dating apps like Tinder and Hinge to see if they can find their perfect match. According to a 2022 Pew Research, approximately 300 millions people use online dating platforms. Unfortunately, out of the 42% of the dating site users who aim for marriage, only 13% get engaged or married from the platform.
When we prioritize our mental health, we can enjoy a clearer mind, a better sense of self, improved productivity and an increased capacity to manage unexpected change. The best part: Making adjustments to your daily life doesn't have to be difficult. Mental health experts weigh in to share practical ways to make your mental health your priority…
Laughter is a way to express pleasure or display our sense of humor. We laugh when things are funny, we laugh when we're experiencing joy, and we laugh when we see our experiences reflected back in a new way. Laughter can help us release tension in a moment of anger or lift us out of the sinking feeling of sadness.
Mothers birth more than children. They birth a new possibility for a community. Mothers carry the legacy of history and culture and often dedicate more time to maintaining a household and rearing children than they do caring for themselves. Mothers are the first teachers of children. They show them how to see the world as it is or as it can be.
When we prioritize our mental health, we can enjoy a clearer mind, a better sense of self, improved productivity and an increased capacity to manage unexpected change. The best part: Making adjustments to your daily life doesn't have to be difficult. Mental health experts weigh in to share practical ways to make your mental health your priority…
Surviving the impacts of ongoing racial trauma can feel like trying to swim with one hand holding a sink stone. You have to work twice as hard to keep yourself afloat, and it’s exhausting. Racial trauma sits beneath the skin of Black, Indigenous and People of Color, and it comes with an enormous weight that gets heavier each day.
By Christiana Ibilola Awosan, PhD., LMFT
It has been a year since the whole world faced COVID-19, the virus that led to frenzy, quarantines, questions, and confusion. By now, many of us either know someone who has either gotten sick from the virus or died from it. The pandemic continues to affect all of our lives in various ways, and some more than others. After a year and more than 500,000 lives lost, many are still getting infected and dying. And, we are all trying to deal with the aftermath beyond the heartache of losing loved ones. The ripple effects of the pandemic have led to financial insecurities and loss of physical connections with our communities. We are grieving multiple losses.
According to the APA “We [as a nation] are facing a national mental health crisis that could yield serious health and social consequences for years to come.”Sadly, “years to come'' is right now for many of us, and we need to address it. We have all felt and continue to feel the mental, emotional, and relational turmoil caused by this pandemic. We are all struggling to cope or live with this new reality of COVID-19. The grief of countless losses caused by the virus weighs on our mental, emotional, and relational well-being which has sparked depression, anxiety, isolation, and great fear surrounding the uncertainty of the future.
What the Pandemic Has Cost Us:
The pandemic has cost many of us sleep and peace of mind. You may be experiencing irregular eating patterns, feeling more tired or restless, and unable to focus or concentrate. You may also be experiencing loneliness and feeling increasingly impatient with yourself, loved ones or coworkers. All of these symptoms are signs of grief that you need to address to maintain not only your physical health, but also your mental, emotional, and relational well being.
Being aware of your mental, emotional, and relational needs will allow you to identify the types of support you need during these difficult times.
Mental needs:
Time and space to process your thoughts
Acknowledgement of the losses you have experienced and are currently experiencing
Patience with yourself and others
A list of your hopes for the future
Emotional needs:
Validation of your fears, anxieties, and hopes
Time and space for your emotions to flow
A channel for your emotions: speaking, writing, drawing, walking, dancing, cooking, exercising
Relational needs:
Support from the people and communities who see and love you
Support from the people and communities who see and love you
Connection with your families and friends
Humility and vulnerability to ask for what you need from your significant relationships
For all of these needs, seeking out professional help for your mental, emotional and relational well-being is important. You don’t need to do this on your own. At Ibisanmi Relational Health, we’re available to help you through your journey. We can help you work through the pain and the grief during these difficult times. Book your 15-minute consultation here.
And be sure to follow us on IG at @ibisanmi.relational for mental health check ins and inspiration.
What happens when the holiday season that often comes with anticipation and excitement, also drags a bag of stress behind it? What do you do to manage stress and keep your balance at a time when so much is happening in your life and the world around you? This year make the goal to not only “get through the holidays” but also find ways to experience some of the joy the season promises.
For most people, the old ways of meeting a person, dating, and falling in love are no longer adding up to living happily ever after. More people are turning to dating apps like Tinder and Hinge to see if they can find their perfect match. According to a 2022 Pew Research, approximately 300 millions people use online dating platforms. Unfortunately, out of the 42% of the dating site users who aim for marriage, only 13% get engaged or married from the platform.
Laughter is a way to express pleasure or display our sense of humor. We laugh when things are funny, we laugh when we're experiencing joy, and we laugh when we see our experiences reflected back in a new way. Laughter can help us release tension in a moment of anger or lift us out of the sinking feeling of sadness.
Mothers birth more than children. They birth a new possibility for a community. Mothers carry the legacy of history and culture and often dedicate more time to maintaining a household and rearing children than they do caring for themselves. Mothers are the first teachers of children. They show them how to see the world as it is or as it can be.
Surviving the impacts of ongoing racial trauma can feel like trying to swim with one hand holding a sink stone. You have to work twice as hard to keep yourself afloat, and it’s exhausting. Racial trauma sits beneath the skin of Black, Indigenous and People of Color, and it comes with an enormous weight that gets heavier each day.
When we prioritize our mental health, we can enjoy a clearer mind, a better sense of self, improved productivity and an increased capacity to manage unexpected change. The best part: Making adjustments to your daily life doesn't have to be difficult. Mental health experts weigh in to share practical ways to make your mental health your priority…