Valentine’s Day often floods our feeds with images of over-the-top bouquets, candlelit dinners, and #couplesgoals hashtags. We’re taught to chase the appearance of a perfect bond, yet behind closed doors, many of us are struggling with a persistent, quiet disconnect. When couples walk into therapy, the most common grievances usually fall into two categories: "We don’t communicate" or "We’ve lost our intimacy."
As we move more deeper into this new year, emotional awareness remains the foundation that supports all other growth. It’s what allows you to build stronger relationships, navigate cultural differences with grace, and show up as the partner, parent, or family member you want to be
If you’re feeling the December pressure to become a completely different person by January 1st, you’re not alone. Many people searching for therapy at this time of the year feel overwhelmed by the idea of ‘starting over.’ And maybe the new year isn’t about joining the gym, starting over, or giving into the pressure to change. Maybe it’s about going deeper to see what parts of you are worth leaning into more.
We’ve all been there: either there’s that one family member who we dread seeing, even if it’s only once a year, or that one story that continues to be retold that triggers frustration, anxiety or anger. Sometimes spending the holidays with the family can feel like being dragged into a play you didn’t ask to be in.
Valentine’s Day often floods our feeds with images of over-the-top bouquets, candlelit dinners, and #couplesgoals hashtags. We’re taught to chase the appearance of a perfect bond, yet behind closed doors, many of us are struggling with a persistent, quiet disconnect. When couples walk into therapy, the most common grievances usually fall into two categories: "We don’t communicate" or "We’ve lost our intimacy."
If you’re feeling the December pressure to become a completely different person by January 1st, you’re not alone. Many people searching for therapy at this time of the year feel overwhelmed by the idea of ‘starting over.’ And maybe the new year isn’t about joining the gym, starting over, or giving into the pressure to change. Maybe it’s about going deeper to see what parts of you are worth leaning into more.
We’ve all been there: either there’s that one family member who we dread seeing, even if it’s only once a year, or that one story that continues to be retold that triggers frustration, anxiety or anger. Sometimes spending the holidays with the family can feel like being dragged into a play you didn’t ask to be in.
Too many in our community are carrying untold stories of pain, trauma, and despair, and too often, they’re suffering in silence without access to the mental health support that could save their lives. The time has come to have honest conversations about mental health as a critical suicide prevention strategy that acknowledges both our cultural strengths and the systemic challenges to create pathways to healing that feel authentic and accessible to our community
In the face of intersecting oppressions, Black women are often carrying not only their own burdens but those of their families and communities as well. As Audre Lorde reminds us, self care for Black women isn't merely a luxury—it's "an act of political warfare" in a world that has historically demanded their sacrifice and service to others.
The truth is, many of us have faced difficult moments this year. Whether it’s been personal loss, professional setbacks, or unexpected life challenges, it’s easy to feel disillusioned or overwhelmed. But as Chadwick Boseman wisely said, “The struggles along the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose.”
The recent election results have left many grappling with a range of difficult emotions. According to a recent survey by the American Psychological Association, more than 75% of adults reported that the future of the country is a major stressor for them. I certainly witnessed the evidence of increased stress this week after the recent election results. Many who sought our services at Ibisanmi expressed a range of emotions–from numbness, anxiety, and fear to outrage.
Valentine’s Day often floods our feeds with images of over-the-top bouquets, candlelit dinners, and #couplesgoals hashtags. We’re taught to chase the appearance of a perfect bond, yet behind closed doors, many of us are struggling with a persistent, quiet disconnect. When couples walk into therapy, the most common grievances usually fall into two categories: "We don’t communicate" or "We’ve lost our intimacy."
As we move more deeper into this new year, emotional awareness remains the foundation that supports all other growth. It’s what allows you to build stronger relationships, navigate cultural differences with grace, and show up as the partner, parent, or family member you want to be
If you’re feeling the December pressure to become a completely different person by January 1st, you’re not alone. Many people searching for therapy at this time of the year feel overwhelmed by the idea of ‘starting over.’ And maybe the new year isn’t about joining the gym, starting over, or giving into the pressure to change. Maybe it’s about going deeper to see what parts of you are worth leaning into more.
We’ve all been there: either there’s that one family member who we dread seeing, even if it’s only once a year, or that one story that continues to be retold that triggers frustration, anxiety or anger. Sometimes spending the holidays with the family can feel like being dragged into a play you didn’t ask to be in.
Caregiving is an act of profound love, but it also comes with an incredible amount of responsibility, which can lead to overwhelming stress.
Caring for yourself isn’t optional when you’re a caregiver; it’s medically necessary.
Too many in our community are carrying untold stories of pain, trauma, and despair, and too often, they’re suffering in silence without access to the mental health support that could save their lives. The time has come to have honest conversations about mental health as a critical suicide prevention strategy that acknowledges both our cultural strengths and the systemic challenges to create pathways to healing that feel authentic and accessible to our community
